“I just couldn’t find a church to meet my needs.” People with that mentality are the classic church hoppers and shoppers. They practice consumer and preferential Christianity with vigor. But, alas, when none of the twenty-eight churches they visited met their needs, they decided to stop trying altogether. They are just too learned to belong to any congregation.
Revelation chapters two to three survey seven different churches. Five of the seven I certainly wouldn’t want to be involved with. However, God didn’t ask any to leave but only to obey Him and change what He found lacking in the congregations.
Often the ones leaving haven’t a solution but are part of the problem. They certainly make life better for those left behind.
Drive out a scoffer, and strife will go out, and quarreling and abuse will cease.
Have nothing to do with foolish, ignorant controversies; you know that they breed quarrels.
But avoid foolish controversies, genealogies, dissensions, and quarrels about the law, for they are unprofitable and worthless.
Hang in there and make your church a better place. Consider it.
Gary