How can you try and figure out what is wrong with people when you honestly can’t understand what is wrong with you? Who am I? How did I get here? Where am I going?
There is One who understands us completely and is willing to take on our case. He has millenniums of years of proven success in cases such as yours.
Hebrews 4:14-16
14 Since then we have a great high priest who has passed through the heavens, Jesus, the Son of God, let us hold fast our confession. 15 For we do not have a high priest who is unable to sympathize with our weaknesses, but one who in every respect has been tempted as we are, yet without sin. 16 Let us then with confidence draw near to the throne of grace, that we may receive mercy and find grace to help in time of need.
Have your records transferred over to Him.
Give it some thought.
Gary