He was a combat marine just getting back from Vietnam and starting college. The only way he got into the service was because someone else provided him some urine. Yes, that’s how it was. He wouldn’t pass because of a kidney problem. He got caught with that stunt once by a medical officer and told the officer that only the military could provide him with the means to get a college education. The doctor was sympathetic to this young, focused marine and let it pass. He made it through his war experience with only the haunting memories that all combat veterans have to carry.
During his first year of college, he had two veterans for roommates, but one got a teaching position which left him in need of another roommate. He knew of a kid just graduating from high school who needed someone older and wiser to take him under his wing. Yes, I was that person and he was right. He came into my life just at the right time.
To make a long story short, he was the best man at my wedding, and years later, I officiated at the weddings of all three of his sons. One of those boys flew my wife and me to California for his wedding. That was the same son who gave his dad a kidney some years later. Some family, isn’t it?
This account is about a real friend whose friendship doesn’t diminish with time, distance or circumstances. With friends like that helping you, navigating the uncertainties of life is easier.
This is my Scripture for individuals such as these who help pave the way for others:
Proverbs 17:17
A true friend is always loyal, and a brother is born to help in time of need.
Make a list of your friends and acknowledge their input in your life and be thankful to God for them.
Think about it.
Gary